... about yesterday.
A week ago, I would have had no second thoughts about putting up
yesterday's post. But I almost didn't. Not because it didn't happen (from my point of view), because it did... but because now people know who it is I am referring to in the post, and I don't want them to get the wrong idea about him. Let me
try to explain with a bit of a story.
This weekend, as has been blogged about completely about, I made a few statements BEFORE anything was said.
Example 1: When I broached TheHusband about meeting Spider, Sorted, et al for dinner Saturday night, I told him that he might hear about things I said here, and if he had any questions, to ask. This wasn't necessary (it turns out), but I also prepared him by showing him my
first post.
Yes. It was a preemptive strike. I know. I was weak. I really wanted to go out to dinner with these people. I wanted to see if I (we) could make some new friends and have some new experiences, so that we could get past this homebody rut we've gotten into. And I wanted him to understand that I don't post negative/bitchy things about him, and he wasn't walking into an ambush of people who would hate him. Especially since I'd asked him NOT to read my blog.
Example 2: When I introduced TheHusband to all of the other bloggers, I quickly said to them "He doesn't read my blog, and he's never seen yours, either (as far as I know)."
In other words, don't talk about the time I mentioned that he was stretching his foreskin, or I posted pictures of his face after having some
cancerous skin cells removed, or... you get the point.
Someone asked me why I had asked TheHusband NOT to read my blog. I told him the same thing I told TheHusband
that one time he had, "If I know he's reading it, I might not be as honest when posting something." If I have to pick my words carefully, then what is the point?
Which brings me to last night's post.
I almost didn't write it. When I decided to, I chose my words carefully. I left out parts of the conversation. I finally hit "publish", and then changed it to "edit". Then I made a few changes, removed the option to comment, and hit "publish" again.
All because people who read this blog know who I am talking about.
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